Here is a list of things that you should avoid gifting on Valentine’s Day:

Engagement ring: Modern women find this idea of being proposed on V-Day something cheesy, “Bollywood kind of thing”.

Cards: Gone are the days when women liked to read into those ‘hearty’ V-Day cards. Now-a-days most women look for something more.

Soft toys: Teddy bears are a cliché now. Keep those stuffed toys for some other day.

Flowers: Flowers can only bring smile on your girls face but they are not enough to please her.

Deodorant: It’s a strict no-no on V-Day. Your girl friend might feel insulted rather.

Showpieces: Do not go for showpieces as girls think these are an easy option.

With Valentine’s Day is round the corner you must be planning for dating and meeting. It is often noticed that in the excitement of first date or dating with the ‘prince charming’ young women often make blunders. It becomes too late when they realize that they fell for the wrong guy.

Make sure that this doesn’t happen to you in your quest for ‘Mr. Right’. Keep your eyes open whenever you go on a date. So that you don’t fail to notice any or all of the following in the man sitting opposite to you:

• Wears engagement ring on his finger

• Keeps talking about his ex or previous relationships (whether good or bad)

• Speaks badly about women or has no respect for women

• Behaves rudely with waiters or other people around

• Shows bad manners

• Looking around when you are talking to him (i.e. he is not paying attention to what you are saying)

• Is drinking too much

• Doesn’t offer to pay the bill

More than that, you need an open mind to judge things rightly. Talk less and listen carefully, because what ever he says and how he says it matters a lot in judging the person.

None of us are perfect and so is your date. However, that doesn’t disqualify him as your prospective suitor or a life partner. To make your work easier, here are some tips to determine whether the guy sitting opposite to you fits the bill.

• What kind of relationship does he share with his family because that’s going to determine your future with your date. For instance, does he respect the elders in his family and how does he treat the younger ones.
• Does he have a strong dependable friend circle who can give him moral and the emotional support as and when required. That way, there are less chances of him getting astray.
• Is he dominating, jealous or a control freak? Since these are some factors that might turn him aggressive towards you at the slightest instigation.
• Does he demonstrate self-control? That is a very positive sign since that indicates towards a long-term commitment and hence a successful relationship.
• Is he confident in whatever he does? That way he should be confident in the relationship too.

Follow these signs and your intuitions for a successful relationship and a committed life-partner.

You are in love with a guy, but he doesn’t seem to reciprocate your feelings. However, you can figure out from his expressions that he likes you a lot. You can sway his love towards you in a few simple steps.

• Be his friend and confidante. Make sure that he feels free to pour his heart out in front of you without any hesitation. Help him learn to trust you with the secrets of his life.
• Let him know that you are always there for him if he needs you. He can come to you for any kind of help or solution.
• Appreciate him if he does something nice and good. Compliment his get up and let him know that he is special.
• Do not nag him with your feelings for him. Don’t stalk or call him very frequently. Give him the time and space to realize his true feelings for you. What you can do is call or text him when he is least expecting to show that you are thinking about him.

So, have patience and stick to the above mentioned for a long-lasting love at the end.

Dating is not always about flirting or having fun with somebody of the opposite sex. Sometimes a date can turn out to be a soul mate you would like to spend your entire life with. So be very particular about what you do and what you say on your first date. Here are some tips to watch your steps:

• Be on time and don’t change your plans or the venue very frequently.
• Be a good listener and discuss general topics like music, films, etc. This would make him feel comfortable.
• Do not ask personal questions pertaining to his past relationships or family. A first date is not the right time to delve into details.
• Be yourself. Let him know what your true person is and be very transparent about your likes and dislikes.
• Follow appropriate table manners
• Do not spend more time concentrating on food than what your dating partner has to say.

These steps will highlight your personality as a wonderful friend and can draw the attention of your first date. He might as well feel comfortable catching up with you again.

A few days back a woman asked me can she make a successful date at all. The reason was that she was not “pretty”. Her features were rather suitable for a man than a woman. This is a question that many women face. They think men will not be ready to go for a date with them when they can have better options. If that is the way you think, go and ask a man directly what does he think about it?

The worst thing that a man expects from a woman is pretension. Don’t pretend to be what you are not in reality. Whether you are good looking or not is something that a man will surely consider but not more than your personality. What matters more to them is how you hold yourself, whether you can be a good partner or not, which does not depend on your look. If you are confident and carry yourself well there can be nothing more attractive. When you find someone who had an unsuccessful date just ask him what the reason was and you will come to know that the reason was behavioral.

So just go ahead if you are looking for a date because your look has got little to do with it.

The major mistake done by most of the senior women is to look for Mr. Right. Remember dating is not only about finding a life time partner. It is also about getting a good friend, spending quality time for someone. Another problem with women is that they think they are no more attractive and it is difficult for them to attract someone. Don’t let this misconception rule you.

It is your self-esteem and self-confidence that can attract men. You have so many positive qualities as a mature woman. You are experienced and you can very well balance your job, your household, your kids, aging parents, social responsibilities and so on. Senior men will always look for these things and prefer someone who will be caring and loving. No matter how old you are you always have the right to be strong and sensual and speak of your desires.

Be a good listener. Let the person know that you want to share his thoughts. You want to know more about him. Senior dating can be fun as well. Above all let the person at the other end feel comfortable. After fulfilling all your responsibilities you deserve to enjoy some quality time with a good companion.

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Girls no more feel shy to go on a date. But the question they often face is that how to make it a nice experience. First of all it is important for you to feel comfortable with your date and make sure to let him feel comfortable as well. Wear a dress that you can carry. Don’t be too formal. Just share some casual views. Avoid any issues related to religion, race, gender etc. Don’t assume that he knows he is handsome. Even if he knows that he needs to hear it from you. Don’t hesitate appreciate his dress sense. Thank him for taking you out for lunch or dinner if it is the case. Enjoy your date. That is the most important thing. Even if you don’t get a life partner you can get a life long friend.

Are you looking for a date? Are you confused how to approach your partner? Don’t feel shy and don’t take dating seriously. Dating is fun. After all you can select a person as your life partner only when you can enjoy that person’s company. Whenever you go on a date try to know what your partner likes. Fix a meeting place that is convenient to your partner. Represent yourself in an interesting way. Try to show how fun loving you are. Be a good listener. Don’t forget to appreciate her. Avoid topics like politics, religion, race, caste and gender. If you can make a special plan give your partner a surprise it is even better. Just follow these tips and make your dating a success.

All of us need a companion to in our journey of life. Whether you are unmarried, or you are widowed, whether you are divorced or separated from your partner it is very difficult to enter into a new relationship when you grow old. But senior dating is not uncommon these days. You can check the senior dating sites to find a friend for a life. If you think that initially you are not comfortable with one-on-one dating you can search for the group dating clubs. You can make new friends and enjoy their company. When you create your profile in any dating site don’t forget to mention the kind of person you are looking for.