Liking and disliking – dating tips
One of the most important decisions that you need to make is whether or not to be as your partner wants or be what you are.
Ego plays a major role and often works rough at the decisive moments. It is easy to say that we should wipe out ego in our relationship but it is tough to maintain. You never know when it has started guiding your actions and thoughts.
You will often find your partner saying that he or she didn’t like this and that about someone. These statements are sometimes too strong like “I hate the way Randy walks”. You start pondering over the word “hate”. You start working and thinking extra not to become Randy or not to walk like Randy.
Think twice before doing this. He or she doesn’t like how Randy walks – and this has got nothing to do with you unless he or she is telling that intentionally. May be your partner does not like something about you and does not want to say that straight in your face and that’s why taking Randy in between. If that is the situation, you can think about modifying your walking style.
What would you do otherwise?
And the most important aspect of the whole thing – he or she says what they do not like about you or somebody. But it is not possible to say what you like about somebody.
Try to find out what your partners like and stop concentrating on what they do not like.
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