Dating Advice and Tips

With Valentine’s Day is round the corner you must be planning for dating and meeting. It is often noticed that in the excitement of first date or dating with the ‘prince charming’ young women often make blunders. It becomes too late when they realize that they fell for the wrong guy.

Make sure that this doesn’t happen to you in your quest for ‘Mr. Right’. Keep your eyes open whenever you go on a date. So that you don’t fail to notice any or all of the following in the man sitting opposite to you:

• Wears engagement ring on his finger

• Keeps talking about his ex or previous relationships (whether good or bad)

• Speaks badly about women or has no respect for women

• Behaves rudely with waiters or other people around

• Shows bad manners

• Looking around when you are talking to him (i.e. he is not paying attention to what you are saying)

• Is drinking too much

• Doesn’t offer to pay the bill

More than that, you need an open mind to judge things rightly. Talk less and listen carefully, because what ever he says and how he says it matters a lot in judging the person.

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None of us are perfect and so is your date. However, that doesn’t disqualify him as your prospective suitor or a life partner. To make your work easier, here are some tips to determine whether the guy sitting opposite to you fits the bill.

• What kind of relationship does he share with his family because that’s going to determine your future with your date. For instance, does he respect the elders in his family and how does he treat the younger ones.
• Does he have a strong dependable friend circle who can give him moral and the emotional support as and when required. That way, there are less chances of him getting astray.
• Is he dominating, jealous or a control freak? Since these are some factors that might turn him aggressive towards you at the slightest instigation.
• Does he demonstrate self-control? That is a very positive sign since that indicates towards a long-term commitment and hence a successful relationship.
• Is he confident in whatever he does? That way he should be confident in the relationship too.

Follow these signs and your intuitions for a successful relationship and a committed life-partner.

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Dating is not always about flirting or having fun with somebody of the opposite sex. Sometimes a date can turn out to be a soul mate you would like to spend your entire life with. So be very particular about what you do and what you say on your first date. Here are some tips to watch your steps:

• Be on time and don’t change your plans or the venue very frequently.
• Be a good listener and discuss general topics like music, films, etc. This would make him feel comfortable.
• Do not ask personal questions pertaining to his past relationships or family. A first date is not the right time to delve into details.
• Be yourself. Let him know what your true person is and be very transparent about your likes and dislikes.
• Follow appropriate table manners
• Do not spend more time concentrating on food than what your dating partner has to say.

These steps will highlight your personality as a wonderful friend and can draw the attention of your first date. He might as well feel comfortable catching up with you again.

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